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两个对自己的疑惑

对于你不在行的事,在别人眼里,你不会差到你所担心的那样;对于你在行的事,可能也不会象你自己想象的那么好。两个疑惑,其实是一个疑惑——人类很难自我判断,即使在今天的网络社会中。所以,乐观些,你比你想象的要好多了。

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Two confusions

Seth Godin

Those things you’re bad at? You’re not nearly as bad at them as you fear.

And those things you’re great at? Probably not nearly as good as you hope.

We beat ourselves up a lot, but often focus on the wrong areas, avoiding the soft spots and doubling down on the places where we are well armored.

Mirrors are a fairly new invention. For millennia, we had little idea what we looked like. And only in the last two generations have people had any clue about what they sounded like. Today, even though we’re surrounded by sound, video and light reflecting on us, not to mention comments and the social media maelstrom, we’re still quite bad at self-judgment.

You’re better than you think you are.

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